I get that idea and if he were actively looking to meet new people I could even agree…but if he’s only logging in to respond to new emails why not ?His response actually makes me wonder if he even realizes that he could hide his profile.If you have agreed to be exclusive, things are easy: you just need to ask him to take it down!If you haven’t agreed to be exclusive, I feel this is the point that the relationship would need to reach before you would be in a position of strength to ask that the profile be removed.
I haven’t said one word about it since but I am wondering how long to wait.
What You Do The one thing you shouldn’t do is verbally attack the guy or start throwing out ultimatums.
If he’s hesitating because he’s concerned about commitment, this approach could scare him off.
While I still believe what I wrote there, I’m finding that many of the women who are contacting me are not at the point where they are sure if the man is their “boyfriend” or not.
With that in mind I wanted to review one of the recent emails I’ve received from a reader and offer some additional advice for this problem.