A woman has just realized that her boyfriend has been active on online dating sites.She is wondering if this is alright, and if she should address him.Unfortunately, dating sites and apps allow people to have secret interactions and flirtations and, in some cases, entire relationships without the risk of their partners catching them in the act.Fortunately, these sites aren't necessarily as anonymous as would be adulterers and cheaters would like to believe.To search for their profile picture, save their social media profile pictures (and any other likely candidates for dating profile pictures) and drag them one by one into the google images search bar.If your spouse is using one of these photos for an online dating profile, you may see it show up iin the search results.If all else fails, you can hire a professional investigator to find out for certain whether your signifigant other is using a dating site.The first step is to be aware of common dating sites and apps (many of which are intended to look inconspicuous) so that if you stumble upon them on a shared devices's apps or browsing history, you’ll recognize them.
I didn’t say anything for a couple of days because I was in shock and wanted to be calm when I discussed it with him. But then he sent me an odd text saying he loves me. Once you tell him how you discovered the information he’ll immediately shut down and feel that you violated the trust of your relationship. However, even though you “accidentally” discovered the information, now that you have it, it trumps any argument he can raise. They could also be using information you simply wouldn’t know.In that case, an option is to create your own account on one of these sites and then search for their physical attributes (age, hair color, etc) and location to see if you find a matching profile._______________________________ Read more Relationship Advice and Dating Advice: Why does he have a secret Facebook page? He won’t bring me out with his friends Friends with benefits: why me? This is an example of a guy getting caught with his hand in the cookie jar and then denying it ever happened. Because now you’re second guessing yourself, and wondering if maybe you’re the problem. We assume something must have tipped you off, causing you to be suspicious of your boyfriend.Hi Guys, My boyfriend has just walked out on me after three years of what I thought was a great relationship. Yes, you did breach the trust of your relationship by snooping, but we can assure you that you’re not the one who caused irreparable damage to the relationship. Because otherwise we can’t see how you could “accidentally” discover he was on a dating site.Ultimately, if you’re worried that your significant other is on a dating site, there are many options for sleuthing (ranging from a quick scan through emails and browser history to more intensive—and expensive—actions).