Dating a German woman follows the standard rules for dating women; you either impress her, or you do not.
Most women will not get offended if you pay the bill, though they do not expect you to do so.
“The gay scene is like three-fourths of the dating scene here,” Gus says, “It’s really nice here to be gay. That’s more about gay culture than Berlin culture.” So finally I ask, “So Berlin sucks for single girls basically? “But once you find a guy, he’s going to treat you super well.” “Is that a German cultural thing? “Yeah, I think so, I’ve heard German girls here say that American guys are awful because they string them along,” She replies.
So, German guys may not play flirtatious games up front, but then they don’t play games once they’re in a relationship either.
Learning a few German dating tips, however, can help you avoid making dating blunders. Younger people tend to meet at bars and clubs, while the older generation tend to move within their circles of friends.
Surprisingly, Germans are flirtatious and more cheeky than they will admit.
’” Gus’ take is similar, “And there’s not this whole act of drawing another person in but just enough and testing the water constantly, and never just relaxing and being yourself, and constantly kind of making the other person jealous so that they want you. It all fits in line with the German stereotype of practicality and efficiency.
A man like this may even question a woman's motives if she approached him to chat.
There is a tendency among German men to date women who are much younger than they are.
Gus is from the States, Pauline grew up in Paris, and Adela grew up in Tel Aviv. I’d had some frankly very boring experiences out in Berlin the two nights prior. I mean, sure, Germans have a reputation as cold and machine-like, but really? People just don’t care who you are,“ Pauline explains. You dance by yourself.” That’s what it felt like inside the clubs so their explanations made a lot of sense. “All of my friends here who are single are really like desperate. She says she had never heard of anyone going on a date.
People don’t talk to each other in Isn’t that the point of going out? And Adela agrees, “Yeah, they’re just like okay, let the girl be there. Gus says she could think of one friend of hers that she knows who has gone on a date, “but it’s not like you can sit in a café here and have some guy come give you his number. ” says Gus, Pauline laughing in agreement on her right.