In other words, most of my men are the one you should be dating in real life – the kind that are open to learning and growth and are willing to spend thousands of dollars to learn how to better connect with women.
The guy who called me today is completely different – and I had such an interesting phone call with him that I wanted to share it with you.
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The difference between music lessons and dating lessons seems to be that people take the latter too personally, like this guy James. Taking advice too personally and a history of hearing both good and bad advice may be two reasons.The question is whether you are going to be like James and continue to blame the opposite sex for everything. You don’t think there’s something wrong with you if you don’t know how to play the Mozart Clarinet Concerto right off the bat.Evan, how about a corny analogy here: It sounds like enrolling in dating coaching is a lot like learning to play an instrument. You find someone who is a good teacher (good coach) and learn techniques to make you a better musician. And so it should be with learning how to be effective in relationships. No one would attempt to be a clarinet teacher if they couldn’t play clarinet themselves.As 2016 drew to a close, we noticed that many search terms were setting new record highs in search interest.The topics ranged from current events (Orlando, Bastille Day) to curious one-offs (nachos, cupping therapy).You’re mistaken in thinking that men are going to improve. It’s to become the kind of woman who UNDERSTANDS men, ATTRACTS men, KEEPS men happy, and CHOOSES good men. And no, it’s no different than how James needs to learn to attract, understand, and connect with women in order to keep them happy.